I'm sure everyone is familiar with the expression
"You are your own worst enemy", and from personal experiences, it couldn't be any more true. I find it difficult at times to keep my mind from wondering, my chin from falling, or my heart collapsing from negative thoughts. I have discovered that sometimes it's hard to just let go of things, and move forward, we tend to be like helicopters, constantly hovering over things. I've watched some pretty amazing souls put themselves down, from finances to future, and life in between. I've watched some of the most beautiful people struggle with their insecurities, while also listening to some of the strongest hearts crumble from hurt or guilt. We all have the potential to be so hard on ourselves sometimes, and rarely acknowledge that we are all so much more than we believe.Another expression I believe to ring true, and that is"Attitude is everything." It makes perfect sense when you think about it, the mind is a powerful thing, and sometimes a good mindset is hard to come by. In hope to make the world a happier place, I'm going to share a few things that I have found to be most helpful in balancing out my equilibrium.
My favorite laugh sessions stem from funny movies or shows, my favorite at the moment being Modern Family. I enjoy good, clean, fun from stand up comedies, silly sarcasm from Someecards, and humorous pictures I stumble upon online.
It's almost imperative that I reach for a laugh when I'm feeling the blues.Laughter is truly the best medicine, and you've got a full set of chompers to show off.
Be a people, person.
Surround yourself with positive people who believe in you and encourage your dreams. Don't let anyone dim your shine or put you down, because people like that only want to see you fail. Say goodbye to the bummers and hold your heads high buttercups. Each and every one of you deserves the best, don't ever forget that.
Accept life's little lessons.
I used to think being clumsy was a disorder, but now I'm finding out that it's actually a test life throws my way, about 10 times a day. I lock my keys in my car like it's going out of style, fall up stairs, trip, and drop objects like it's my day job.
It's easy to become negative nancys when we want to be, and my turning point was when I was told that, "It is not what happens to you, it's how you react to it that defines you", definite eye opener. It's much easier to drop an F bomb or blame the nearest person around you, but that only makes you look like a mean sailor. Laugh at yourself. rub your booboos, and thank that sharp table corner for your new banana bruise tattoo.
L.I.F.E G.O.E.S O.N.
Embrace your flaws.
I guarantee the most intelligent, beautiful, physically blessed, human beings struggle with personal battles we couldn't even imagine having to deal with. Best bet, be weary, kind, and happy, for those around you. Jealousy is the ugliest trait of them all.
I've learned that by acknowledge beauty in others, you discover beauty in yourself. Give compliments frequently, change the things you don't like about yourself, and be happy for what you've been given. Compared to a majority of the world, you are very well off, so use what you have, with what you've been given, no matter where you go!
Beat brain ninjas
Overthinking: The creation of problems that never existed in the first place, and get you absolutely no where productive. The brain tends to have a mind of its own (pun intended), but with a little positive thought, you can turn those negative ninjas around. It's believed that if you hear, or repeat, something 3 times, you're mind starts to believe it. So start the trio of positive words, and BELIEVE.
You are an amazing human being, you are an amazing human being, you ARE an AMAZING human being.
Take life day by day, that's really all you can, and are expected, to do.
Believe in something, anything.
"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says I'm possible"
Get lost.
Whether it's in a book, your head phones, good conversation, intense workout, nap, or prayer, escaping reality is healthy, embrace your imagination.
Let love in.
We've all been hurt by someone we care about, and sometimes we can't understand where things went wrong. The worst thing to do is linger on the issue, or blame yourself. You have to accept the things you can't change, take a deep breath, and just let go. When one door closes, another always opens, and you'll be surprised one day. Things will naturally fall apart, just to fall together again, and someone will step into your life and make you realize why it didn't work out with all the others. Just because you got hurt, doesn't mean you give up, so have FAITH, HOPE for the best, and LOVE with all of your heart.
Don't picture being single as being alone, but as a time to "do you booboo!"
Discover things about yourself, find out what you want in life, and with what kind of person you want to share it with, because it's much easier to be happy with someone else when you're happy with yourself.


































