My realization this year came in the form of a fast ball, thrown a week before Thanksgiving. My family is deciding to go separate ways this year, a foreign idea to me. Naturally, I was devastated, 22 years of tradition for me, shattered by one Thanksgiving apart, until I took a look at the big picture. My parents, who are the hardest working souls I've ever met, are taking a relaxing, well deserved, trip to the beach and my sisters are finally getting to spend the holiday with their husbands families, which is rare, because we are typically a pretty inseparable gang on holidays. In thought of this, I decided to feel a little less like Jenny McCarthy's "Singled out" and little more tuned in. In scrambling to decide what I was going to do, whether it be eating a Jim's Thanksgiving, or frozen dinner, I decided to A. be thankful that the reason my family couldn't be together this year was because we chose not to, not because we weren't able to and B. that I could try something different this year. I was thankful for how many friends and distant family members were so eager to have me over, I can't pin point a more eye opening moment where I've felt more loved, and blessed. In conclusion, my turkey day plans will consist of me volunteering at the homeless shelter, for those who need me, and feasting with my second family, and high school best friends. Helping hands, and helping hearts. It's important to be thankful for what you have, especially on a day that is trying to remind you of it.
I'm thankful for:
1. My family: I couldn't put a crazier group of people together if I tried, but I couldn't picture a world where they weren't around. Whether walking this earth, or watching above, my family is most beautiful,giving,loving, group of people I've been so lucky to grow up with, and learn from.
2. My friends: My second family, and ultimate life fighting support system. Good friends are hard to come by, and I've got one hell of a great gang of girls and guys.
3. My education: I've never known exactly what I've wanted, but my drive to stick to eduction, stuck right back. I received my Associates this year, and even though it's only a milestone, it's an exciting one, and I can't wait to further my education, learning and growing to my greatest potential.
4. My job: Not the highest, most challenging, of jobs, but a job to be proud of none the less. My Barista status has introduced me to some of the coolest people, experiences, and opportunities to help others, and grow within myself. I love me some coffee, I love me some customer relationships.
5. My sass: This includes my living arrangement, means of transportation, and fun life accessories. Material objects are not everything, hardly anything, but I'm thankful for the fun things I get to treat myself to here and there.
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving of family, food, fun, and friends.

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